This recruiter? Is a MORON

Background: I applied for a job a few months ago within the umbrella of one of those giant healthcare companies. A different facility, just within the same giant company. I drove through a snowstorm to get to my interview, was searched and then sniffed by dogs, and waited at least 30 minutes. At which point I got a PHONE CALL saying "we were just told not to bother interviewing you, because you won't be hired." Any particular reason? "I'm sure you know." Well, no. This is all very cloak-and-dagger. (I found out that someone who doesn't like me may or not be involved with a higher-up there, but far be it from me to suggest that politics could affect my job prospects.)

Needless to say, I was angry.

I've subsequently found that I dodged a bullet because it's a horrible place to work, so, it all came out in the wash.

UNTIL.

Yesterday, out of the blue, I got a recruiting letter from this company, wanting me to apply for the SAME JOB, and offering me a sign-on bonus.

Needless to say, I was angry.

I replied politely, explained the situation, and suggested that they focus on retention and professionalism rather than recruiting if they're having to beg people they chased out of the place to come there with a big bonus.

This goes in my all-time "are you kidding me" bucket.

Updates on my fascinating life, thoughts on Apple Music, and...?

Hey, I survived another 4th of July! I have a new salaried job (hospice case manager), so not only did I NOT have to work the 4th in an ER, I didn't have to work at all. And I got paid anyway. That's some awesomesauce right there. I used Friday to jet down and spend the day with my grandparents in their assisted living apartment. I can only hope that if I live to be 95, I'm doing as well as they are.

They're 95. 95! I hope I got most of my genes from this side of my family.

They're 95. 95! I hope I got most of my genes from this side of my family.

On the actual 4th I got up early and drove home to dog-sit, because one of my pit bulls goes ape from Things That Make Noise. This includes thunder and fireworks. She turns cartwheels and pants until she froths. So I drug her and sit home with her. I know how to party, people.

So, during my trip into the pits of Southeast Kansas, I experimented more with Apple Music. Typically I fuss over playlists in Spotify and download them all for offline listening, but I resolved to see if Apple Music would "just work." Aside from Beats 1, for which I had to turn on my VPN, it actually did. There are dead zones down there; I got much better reception in rural Italy than I do in my hometown. Nevertheless, by some dark magic, the music never even jittered. Beats 1, by the way, holds no attraction for me. I've given it a good try, but my music tastes manage to exclude every song they play, ever.

I listen to a lot of music. I have a huge iTunes library. I've been happily paying Spotify $9.99 for years. I have already canceled my subscription there. For my needs, Apple Music is a slam-dunk.

  • The stuff I stream integrates seamlessly with my existing playlists, so all those smart playlists keep working with my streamed music.
  • The "for you" recommendations are creepily good.
  • My Apple Watch playlist now syncs streamed music to my watch, so I am finally freed of lugging my iPhone out to exercise. I want to listen to NEW music when I'm out!
  • Thus far I have discovered only one track I wanted that Apple Music didn't have, and I listened to some weird stuff.
  • I like the iTunes Match simulation well enough.

It packages all of the things I actually DO with music into one service. It's not a particularly user-friendly service at first, but as I recall Spotify has been through a lot of interations at this point. I've been doggedly trying to make subscription services work, back from the Napster and Rhapsody days, and now I have a solution that finally works.

I hope Apple makes a lot of UI improvements to it, though. iTunes needs to be nuked and repaved.

Beyond Scrubs review: I love these scrubs!

The folks at Scrubs and Beyond asked me to review their new scrubs line, Beyond Scrubs. I picked out a set and gave them a spin, and they are without a doubt my favorite scrubs to date. I used to think that scrubs couldn't be that complicated, but as anyone who wears them soon realizes, it is extremely difficult to find a combination of material, fit, and storage (pockets, loops, hooks, and so on), not to mention style, that you like. These, though, are that perfect combination.

Abby yoga-inspired Beyond Scrubs pants

Abby yoga-inspired Beyond Scrubs pants

I ordered an Ellie V-neck top and, with grave misgivings, the Abby yoga-inspired pants. I felt like yoga + scrub pants must surely be a horrible idea, yet the actuality of the pants looked pretty good, so I went for it. I got the pewter, which has bright pink accents around the inside seams.

They are incredibly comfortable, to start with. The material is soft and vaguely stretchy without seeming too thin, and the stretchiness somehow allows them magically to fit like normal scrubs while feeling custom-tailored. I normally wear drawstring scrub pants because the elastic ones fall down, and although the drawstrings crimp my middle, I'd rather be crimped than pantsless. These yoga-style scrub pants have a wide, comfortable elastic waist that stays up. I loaded my pants pockets with all the stuff I normally carry plus a few dollars in quarters, and they still stayed put. No hitching at my waistband. The pants have side slits at the bottoms, too, which I prefer.

The top is a fairly typical style but achieves exactly the right length to cover my waistband when I bend over while not extending so long that it looks like a sail when I'm standing. The arm holes are large enough that they don't catch at my arms, too. Apparently I gesture like a windmill during normal conversation, because scrub tops typically nip my upper arms. These don't, but the top fits so that a bra won't show anywhere—no need for an undershirt. The pockets hold a normal amount of stuff. As with the pants, the top somehow manages to look like the rest of my scrubs yet to fit a lot better.

Magical though they may be, these scrubs have two drawbacks. The first is that the material is very wrinkly. I'm not an ironer (I'm not sure that I even own an iron), and if I don't snatch the laundry immediately out of the dryer, these scrubs look like accordions. The second is the inclusion of zippers. There are heavy zippered pockets, one each on the top and pants. The zippered pocket on the top is lined rather heavily, and it adds some bulk. The zippers aren't a huge deal, but they seem unnecessary.

Finally, Beyond Scrubs are definitely affordable. They fall somewhere between the generic scratchy kind and the designer label ones. But wait! NNR readers can snag a set for 20% off until June 2016: just use the code NNR20.[1]


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Are you a good nurse or a bad nurse?

I'm a bad nurse. I have just spent 3 days in bed with a fever and crud. During that time I piled blankets on myself when I had the chills (during the heat wave) and didn't push fluids. In fact I didn't eat or drink anything at all because I just didn't feel like going that whole 20 feet to the kitchen. Admit it: who actually does all the stuff you tell patients to do?

I'm really over being sick. This latest bout of drud is arguably my fault. I had a ridiculous sinus infection and prayed for my head to drain; I should have been more specific. NOW it's draining. OK, point taken. The grass isn't always greener.

I see a definite trend here with my immune system, that being that working nights seems to be a thing of my more youthful days. I put in notice and am moving on to a Day Job. A Day Job That Is Not in a Hospital. I look forward to health, a regular schedule, and doing something different.

I'm Excited about Apple Music

Apparently, though, I'm in a minority group with that excitement. I get it. Ping was Apple's last foray into this type of thing, and it catastrophically failed. Actually, it wasn't even catastrophic; it was THAT BORING.

I have a lot of music, meaning I own a lot of music that lives on my laptop in my iTunes library. It lives also in the cloud through iTunes Match, a service that I like just fine despite the criticism it gets. I don't think $25/year is highway robbery for storing all of my music and freeing me from having to find a cable to sync each device I want my music on. Ain't nobody got time for that.

In addition to all that tunage, I have been paying $9.99/month for Spotify since it arrived on US soil, and I'm happy to pay it. I'm one of those people for whom this type of streaming service makes sense because I listen to so much music. If I really like it, I'll buy it and add it to my iTunes library, although I'm getting fuzzier about remembering to do thi s. It's too easy to pull playlists together between iTunes and Spotify and never need to know "is this music I own, or is it streaming?"

Subscription services are starting to nickel and dime me, so I regularly pause during my monthly bill-paying and evaluate whether I really need each one, "need" being, of course, subjective. I don't pause too long over Spotify. Yes, $120 a year for music I don't get to keep sounds like a terrible idea; however, it works for me, because I'm the type of person who used to buy a couple of CDs a month back in the old days. I basically used them the way I use Spotify, to find new stuff I liked. If I liked it, I kept it, but if I didn't, well, the return on used CDs wasn't so great. I don't think I'm wasting any more money with streaming, and there's a good chance I'm not even spending as much money on music since I try before I buy.

All that said, Apple Music looks to possibly allow me to slim down my subscription round-up by combining iTun es Match and Spotify functionality, and that sounds fantastic to me. I don't care at all about the live radio or the Connect (that sounds like Ping, which didn't work the first time either), but the ability to stream (and cache for offline listening) the entire iTunes library will effectively replicate what I use Spotify for. I dare to hope that it will be even easier to combine owned and streamed music within the same ecosystem. This hope revolves around two major unknowns: will Apple Music actually replicate iTunes Match functionality, and are they serious about streaming ALL that music?

If the answers are yes, what's not to like? Apple Music is one of the three things that excited me about the keynote, the other two being Watch OS 2 and the Notes.app enhancements. I'm pretty easy to please.

Letting go

I am a little confused about letting things go. I like to get rid of THINGS that I'm not using. I don't want to dust, charge, or store them. Not using = gone. More ephemeral concepts are another story. They sort of eventually escape from me covered in claw marks or slink away in the night when I'm not looking.

I would like to discover the happy medium between throwing things out when they're still useful and keeping things far beyond the point of sanity, and I speak of things such as concepts and relationships.

"We've always done it that way" is the sentence of doom in the workplace, but I'm just fine using that very idea to crawl into a personal rut and furnish it. Why? Is the inside of my head so fantastic that I want to be there all the time?

Not to put to fine a point on it: hellz to the no.

In overthinking this, I've decided that "should" may be one of my more formidable enemies. I should have done this or that by now. I should be able to do this. I should feel that way. More sinisterly: other people should behave in certain ways. They should not do certain things.

I estimate I've spent about 5 years of my life altogether (out of 40 so far) angry about what other people should do or not do. When examined closely, this is insanity. Focusing on what does exist would, on the face of things, be a big time-saver.

I spend so much time trying to figure things out that I become mired in fantasy. By this I mean that I become so distressed over what I perceive as illogical behavior that I try to make sense of it. To do that, I spend a lot of time and energy attempting to explain other people's emotions, thoughts, and behavior: that is fantasy. A good portion of the time I can't even explain my OWN emotions, thoughts, and behavior. What chance do I have with others? And why bother? Is it really any of my business?

A friend told me two things a long time ago that struck me and then subsided into my subconscious. One was "people are not thinking of you nearly as often as you think they are" and the other was "what other people think is none of your business." I understand a little more what she meant now. Most people walk around wrapped up in themselves and their own motivations, immaterial to me, and any attempt to thread those motivations through their behavior TOWARD me is doomed.

Or, in other words: "the only things you can change are your attitude and your underwear." Not other people's attitudes, or, typically, their underwear (exceptions do occur in nursing).

Anyway, I would like to find the world that IS and function there, free of old ideas and "shoulds" that are requiring a lot of dusting and care and not doing anything at all for me except taking up space. I don't really have a plan for this other than to remove obvious roadblocks, no matter how big a leap of faith it takes. No problem, right?

Life with my Apple Watch (and a calendar hack)

I've had my Apple Watch for a few weeks now, and...I love it. I was lukewarm, but now it's reached the status of my wrist feeling lacking without it, while ironically it's very comfortable to wear so I'm not necessarily aware of it unless it isn't there.

I even warmed up to the strap. I don't know whether the heat of my arm has loosened it up or I've just gotten used to it, but it is now very flexible and comfortable. I canceled my Milanese loop order because I'm just fine now with my Smurf-blue strap.

I've changed a few things in my daily life processes to work with the Watch, since it's here to stay. Scheduling has been an issue for me. I like paper planners (I have a whole board for them on Pinterest). My brain apparently needs the visual layout, and no matter how easy iPhone calendar apps make it to enter appointments, I manage to jack it up. Much easier to just flip to a page and jot it down without messing with tiny buttons, wheels, or keyboards.

New planner (purple personal Filofax: Malden)

New planner (purple personal Filofax: Malden)

When I got my watch I switched to electronic calendars because that's the slick, hip, and cool thing to do. It IS nice to have your next event right there on the watch face. Still, I was late to stuff or went on the wrong days and decided I might as well integrate a good old fashioned planner back into my life (I found a great deal on a purple Malden Filofax on eBay...coincidence?).

There are things I do prefer my phone or watch over paper for. I like reminders, and I use Siri constantly. I also keep my grocery list in Reminders because it's so easy to say, "Hey Siri, add bananas to my grocery list." And with the fab Reminders Nano app, I can pull that stuff up via a glance on the Watch, which may make me look stupid in the store but is much handier than balancing an iPhone 6 Plus along with OJ and eggs.

I've adapted my iPhone calendar usage for the watch. I use the Modular face, which dedicates a good third of the screen to the next calendar event. I don't need that because I've got my actual schedule in my planner, so I coopt the space to write reminders to myself; however long I time the "event" for is how long the reminder will be on my wrist every single time I look at my watch. I can fit an entire short-run grocery list into a calendar event in this way so I don't even have to push buttons in the store. The effect is much like walking around with a Post-It note on my arm. I love this hack so much. There's usually at least ONE thing a day that I ABSOLUTELY CAN'T FORGET but am likely to forget if I have to pull up a list to look at it.

And of course, the watch can't be beat for location reminders. I went to the trouble of entering the address for the local gas station into my contacts so the watch will remind me to stop for gas when I drive by. It's the little things in life.

Finally, I'll chime in with most other commenters who note time saved messing with my phone. I have fine-tuned my watch notifications, finally, to the Goldilocks level (not too few, not too many: just right). Typically now when I pull out my phone it's to do something specific, as opposed to previously when I just checked it all the time to see if I had missed something important. And then, while I was there, checked Twitter and Tumblr and...

Anyway. My little calendar hack isn't really brainiac stuff, but I'm finding it danged handy, so let me know if you try and like it!

Soliant Health: interview for nursing week

What inspired you to start blogging?

When I started nursing school, there were a lot more nurse bloggers than there are now; people hadn’t been fired and run out on rails yet. I got a lot of benefit from reading and identifying with the experiences of other student nurses and from receiving advice from veteran nurses. I’ve always liked to write, so it became an obvious step for me.

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