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Published on November 20, 2010 in Technology

I have a lukewarm tolerance–hate relationship with Facebook. I fly into rages about it fairly regularly but stay on it because it IS a utility, and without it I don’t stay in touch with people with whom I want to stay in touch. Also, I’m friends with people who amuse me. Anyway, the fact that Facebook owns my content FOREVER freaked me out anew yesterday evening, so I’m feeling more bitter than usual. Here’s the story.

The boyfriend was fooling around with all the friend finder tools and said, “Do you have our hospital listed on your profile for your workplace?” (disbelievingly, because he knows how I get about stuff like that). No, I don’t. “Well, you’re listed under it for ‘Find coworkers at this institution.’” WHAT. THE. ACTUAL. FRACK. It even has coworker and former coworker tags.

I flew to my Air (which was instantly on) and checked. Could I have been so stupid? I have nothing listed under my work experience, yet Facebook somehow knows where I work. In practice this is unimportant because I don’t post things on Facebook that I absolutely can’t have anyone knowing, but in theory I’M SUPPOSED TO BE ABLE TO CONTROL MY PRIVACY SETTINGS. If anyone can find how to get off those lists, by all means please let me know, but I spent a lot of life energy to no avail. It knows, and I can’t make it un-know. I may have listed this information at some point, possibly back when I was a CNA or something, but that doesn’t explain how it knows the current vs former information.

This is just evil. Bad. I am also pretty sure that if I send a support request into the black hole of Facebook Help I will be left empty-handed. Does this bother anyone else?

 
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  • Steve Sheridan

    I immediately went to my profile and it looks ok but that would really piss me off.

    Favorite line: “I flew to my Air (which was instantly on) …”

    • Not Nurse Ratched

      I thought my tech readers would like that!

  • mosprott

    Crap like this is exactly why I dumped FB. Not any help to you, I know, but it was so darned frustrating to try keep on top of their privacy settings.

  • http://pixelrn.posterous.com Beth

    Totally on the same page as you as far as FB is concerned. Every day I toy with the idea of deleting my account (and not just deactivating it – DELETING it) but I just can’t bring myself to do it because of the 5 or 6 people that it is convenient for me to reach there.

    One idea I’m mulling over is to download all my content (they at least let you do that), delete my account, and then start a new account that is squeaky clean, and just use it for keeping in touch with those above mentioned 5 or 6 people. This post may have just given me the kick in the butt I need to do that.

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  • http://robertfraser.ca @rdjfraser

    This is why, I could never do the anonymous online profile stuff. Free doesn’t buy you any guarantees. If early adopters can’t keep up, where does that leave the people that struggle to find the on button for their computer, or that don’t click anything for fear of deleting their hard drive?

    I guess I’ve just resigned myself to trade my privacy for the features it gives me. However, I can relate to Beth’s comment. I keep toying with the idea of deleting it all. Just to remember what life is like without. I think life is better with all these tools, but can I be certain without trying it?

    Don’t think I can do this anytime soon though.

    Sorry to hear about the breech,
    Rob